Loud & Lifted
Loud & Lifted
Most career advice for women is too polite to be useful. Loud & Lifted isn't. This is the podcast that tells the truth about what women actually deal with at work — toxic bosses, narcissists, getting passed over, salary fights, betrayal from peers, the hard conversations nobody trains you for. And what to actually do about each one. No fluff. No fake cheerleading. Just named problems and specific weapons — the scripts, the tactics, the unfiltered takes from women who've lived it. Because no one makes it alone. And the support system we deserve isn't going to build itself. It's time to get loud and lifted. Are you in?
Loud & Lifted

There is no Girls Club. Let's build one.

Welcome to Loud & Lifted — the podcast that names what other women-in-leadership shows won't. Toxic bosses. Glass walls. Salary gaps. The women who undermine you instead of lifting you. The things that are actually happening to you at work, said out loud.

Hosted by Betsy Hamm, former CEO, this isn't theory from someone who read a leadership book. It's the playbook from someone who had to figure it out in real time.
Every other Thursday, Betsy sits down with women who tell the truth about:

Toxic bosses, narcissists
Glass walls and workplace politics
Salary, raises, and the phrases that get you paid

Each interview is followed by a 10-minute Quick Lift — the tactical scripts, the specific moves, the part you can use.

No fake cheerleading. No fluff. Just the real conversation and what to do about it.
So you can be loud and lifted.

Deprogramming the Good Girl with Michelle Minnikin
Loud & Lifted
Deprogramming the Good Girl with Michelle Minnikin

Recent Episodes

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Sept. 17, 2026

Deprogramming the Good Girl with Michelle Minnikin

Were you taught to be nice, helpful, agreeable and easy to work with—only to end up overworked, undervalued and quietly resentful?

In this episode, Betsy talks with psychologist, coach and Good Girl Deprogramming author Michelle Minnikin about the conditioning that teaches women to put everyone else first. They unpack how it follows us into the workplace, why traditional career advice often fails women and how being the “good girl” can eventually hold us back.

Michelle also explains why re
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Sept. 10, 2026

Stop Carrying What Doesn’t Need to Be Yours

Episode Overview: If you’re the person everyone relies on, it can start to feel completely normal to carry way too much. In this Quick Lift, I’m breaking down the biggest takeaways from my conversation with Cherylanne Skolnicki about the peak of complexity, why capable women become the default person at work and at home, and how to start changing that without lowering your ambition or your standards. You’ll learn: Why your old way of managing life may not work anymore How to spot th
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Sept. 3, 2026

You Built a Bigger Life. Now You Need a Different Way to Run It.

At some point, being the woman who can handle everything stops feeling impressive and starts feeling exhausting. In this episode, I’m talking with Cherylanne Skolnicki, founder of Brilliant Balance, about what she calls the peak of complexity—that season when your career is demanding more, your family is demanding more, your ambition is still very much alive…and your available capacity is basically gone. We talk about why the same operating system that helped us climb professionally eventu
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Aug. 27, 2026

Perimenopause Is Not a Career Decline: What to Know and What to Do

You are exhausted. You cannot sleep. Your anxiety feels higher. Your focus is off. And suddenly you are wondering why things that used to feel manageable now seem so much harder. It might be stress. But what if it is not just stress? In this Quick Lift, Betsy shares the key takeaways from her conversation with Dr. Caissa Troutman about perimenopause, leadership and why women can mistakenly interpret very real symptoms as a loss of capability. This is not a medical deep dive. It is th
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Aug. 20, 2026

You’re Not Losing Your Edge: Perimenopause, Work and the Pressure to Power Through

Perimenopause often arrives during the exact years women are leading teams, running businesses, pursuing promotions and managing enormous responsibilities at work and at home. But many women do not recognize what is happening. They blame the anxiety on stress. The exhaustion on their schedule. The 3:00 a.m. wake-ups on everything running through their minds. And because they are not having hot flashes, they dismiss perimenopause as a possible explanation. In this episode, Betsy sits dow
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Aug. 13, 2026

Stop Abandoning Yourself in the Small Moments

Silencing yourself does not always mean staying quiet. Sometimes it means agreeing when you have a different opinion, putting everyone else’s needs ahead of your own or becoming so focused on keeping everything running that you lose touch with what you think and want. In this Quick Lift, Betsy shares the key takeaways from her conversation with Elaine Lin Hering and practical ways to begin rebuilding your voice. You’ll learn: • The subtle ways women silence themselves • Two questions th

About the Host

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Betsy Hamm

Betsy Hamm has spent 25 years on both sides of the table. As CEO, she scaled Duck Donuts from 20 stores to nearly 200 — making the calls on who got the raise, who got the promotion, and who got quietly passed over. She's also been the woman in the room second-guessing herself, holding back, and watching another woman get the credit she earned.
She started Loud & Lifted because the polite version of the women-in-leadership conversation wasn't helping anyone. The hardest part of the climb isn't the men at the top. It's the women who won't lift each other — and the voice in your own head telling you to play smaller. That's the real conversation, and it was happening in DMs and back channels instead of out loud. She decided to put it on a microphone.
She's also doing it for her two teenage daughters — and every young woman about to walk into a workplace that still hasn't figured this out. The goal isn't to warn them. It's to make sure the rules have changed by the time they get there.
Today, Betsy runs Betsy Hamm Lifted Studio, working with executives and emerging businesses on the things that actually move the needle. She's a keynote speaker, a lifelong learner, and done holding back.
The mic isn't for the loudest voice. It's for the realest one.